Question: "How do I avoid becoming a divorce statistic?" For more on Paul Carrick Brunson, visit: www.onedegreefrom.me For more on marriage and statistics, visit YourTango.com! Being A Pessimist Is Good For Your Relationship http The Best Marriage Advice You Can Get www.yourtango.comYourTango is your source for smart talk about love, sex, dating and relationships. Whether you’re married, single, taken, engaged or "it’s complicated," check out our videos for the best love and relationship news, entertainment and advice. Follow us on Twitter: twitter.com Become friends on Facebook: www.facebook.com www.yourtango.com | Smart Talk About Love transcript of video This is Paul Carrick Brunson with Ask YourTango, answering all your love and relationship questions. Today’s question is, "With the divorce rate being so high, how can I avoid being a statistic?" We often times are swayed by these doom and gloom statistics and I hate when I see these doom and gloom statistic. The reason why is because not all data applies to us. Let’s take this 51% marriage rate for example. All data shows that that 51% is a complete broad stroke. And for those that date in a very committed way, and that is for at least two years, the divorce rate shrinks to 20-21%. My point is that dating, just like any other facet of life, is hard work and you want to do it diligently. And so that’s why two years is the number because you need to have enough time to be to not only hear someone’s values, but observe <b>...</b>