Finding a good doubles partner is like choosing a spouse; someone you can not only get along with but who also compliments your game and supports you mentally when you are in most need.

Even when you find the one that you think is the best; it takes time to build a relationship based on understanding each other’s game, feelings, and background.

The following are some guidelines that you should look out for in finding the ideal doubles partner:

1. His/Her Style of Play Must Fit Your Game (and vice versa)

If your partner, let’s say, has a powerful serve, you should be able to compliment him at the net by taking advantage of the weak reply from the returner. If your partner is slow, you should be fast. If you are a little inconsistent, she/he should be the consistent one. If your backhand is weak, your partner should be able to help you out on that side.

In short, whatever you lack your partner should make up for, and vice versa.

2. The Right Mental and Physical Attitude

You both should be able to forgive each other’s mistakes. Let’s face it; we all make mistakes, why blame your partner for a shot he/she missed when it could just as easily have been your mistake?

Being positive and encouraging is key to building a long-lasting relationship. Be a friend for your partner not only on the court but outside tennis matches as well. Refrain from showing any negative body language during the match at any time. That is not only destructive for your concentration and overall performance but it affects your partner’s mood too. The opposite is true also – keeping a positive attitude keeps your partner happy and relaxed.

3. Willingness to Work Together on Your Weaknesses in Practice

This might sound odd but in reality, most of the players just want to play matches and compete. But if you need to work on certain areas of your game to improve them, your partner should be willing to help you. In fact, both of you must agree that in order to be a strong team with fewer holes in your game you must focus on straightening each other’s weaknesses and strategize how to use your strengths to the maximum.

4. Physique

In tennis, having a team of two tall players is not necessarily as powerful as having a team that compliments each other. For example, two tall teammates can be easily challenged with low balls at their feet or moving fast around the court; two short players as a team can be easily lobed at the net. So having one tall player who takes most of the lobs and a shorter teammate who hustles for lower and wider balls can sometimes be a better match-up.

As you meet different players you will discover also what style of play works best for you. So keep experimenting and playing with different tennis partners until you come across the perfect one.

Good luck! :)